A New Years Resolution

As I watched the morning news, listening of all the wonderful promises different people were making to them self for the 2013 year. I couldn’t help but think, “That is what we do, right?” We make promises to ourselves to be better, smarter, skinner, more physically active, more financially smart, to divorce, to stay married, to stop abuse, to be thankful for what we have, to have more romance in our relationships, to think of our children more, to work for our employer and not complain, to make more money, to work fewer hours. That is what a New Year’s resolution is… “A promise to self and others to try to be different”. I have always been one to journal and pray my way through life. Seeing violence in others throughout my youth made me someone a quiet observer of human behavior. When I was a child don’t really want to say how old, my family was shocked at the devastation the Watt’s riots brought to Los Angeles, California, later I and many others were sent home from school with no explanation to turn on the televisions and watch the assassination of our President. This left many of us in shock, it seemed prayer was the only thing we could do. On the other side I witnessed my parents help strangers and be helped by them it is the answer to prayer of Gods people. We help each other heal. My parents were prayerful people who helped other people, who in turn were helped. I the youngest child was a child who grew up witnessing their love for God’s people. I too got to participate in the things that were appropriate. For the more mature parts (when it got really violent in the city we lived in) my sister and I was sent to my aunts and uncles hourse, hours away.

The last few years I pray and calendar my way through life. I know, it’s not the same as journal (I have volumes of God’s blessings documented). I heard today that someone designed a one sentence journal, I thought that was wonderful. For today’s business woman, one sentence is sometimes just enough reflection to last the whole day. That is how I use a calendar. I know everyone is into the cell phone calendar or the ipad, iphone, latest electronic calendar, I think there is a beauty to going through my calendar as I switch to the New Year’s calendar and posting the old information into the new one. It is for me a life continuation, a life reflection, a moment in time to give thanks for the year that just past, a moment to dream, plan for my future. So much of life is being happy with what we have. Trying to do our best and asking for the portion that belongs to me. I might not be as strong as others but I know that God has a portion for me. The Lord is my provider. He open and closes doors for those that know him. I read in a devotional today, about a man whose heart was hardened. I thought I had been through so much in my own life that this would be so easy to let happen this happen.

Instead I decided to take inventory of the things I have overcome. So much of my life has been filled with pain.

My List of Accomplishments because of God’s Grace in my Life, I say this with a big THANK YOU! May it be an encouragement to those who have suffered!

• I am MADD as in Mothers Against Drunk Driving. (Mom’s who have experience someone who has been an alcoholic)
• I have overcome an Alcoholic dad. • I witness a mom who took his abuse to long so her daughters could grow up with dad.
• I have overcome getting hurt at the age of 13. (I still don’t like talking about this.)
• I married the man I started dating at 17. • I overcame the divorce 38 years later. (Rather not go into it. Respect for the children we had together)
• I overcame several injuries, broken foot, back, hand, arm to run a race. • I over came many failures before getting my BA Degrees, certifications, testing.
• I am now battling thyroid issue.
• I am now starting a new life, new way of being a new income, to be thankful to start journaling in my New Year 2013 calendar. This list does not include all of my sufferings, I wouldn't want you to think I am bragging.  LOL

I thought I would change my diet then I realized that a diet it important because it helps us communicate who we are.

Diets:
Here is what I recommend before you try to change you! Make sure it is you that wants to change for yourself. The changes last if it for yourself, because you commit to yourself. We might tell yourself it is for my children, the truth is I am making this promise to myself so I can see my children grow up or whatever reason you choose. The get your thyroids check! It is what regulates our weight. It also lets your Doctor know of your commitment to yourself. I have had wonderful doctors. They have helped me and continue to do so. I have always had a Hyperthyroid. Didn’t realize this until I was older. Having this is just as difficult as being overweight. I don’t get hunger. I still have to make sure, I eat correctly. Instead of three meals a day I have to have five small meals a day. I have to make sure I exercise, have a balanced life. Everything is okay to get just in right proportion.
                                                                                                                                     

 No life is perfect it is how we look at it. Here is my New Year’s Resolution. Now that my children are young adults, now that I have or am trying to start a new life and have more time to self. I have decided to write each person that has helped me and thank them and let them know how much they have meant to me. I have also decided to have the courage to write to those that have not been as helpful or brought negativity to my life. Any good New Year’s resolution has to have a balance. Right? Since I tend to look and think of only the good things in life. I decided to think about those that might have been negative in my life. To reflect on what, how, when, why they affected my life. Why I allowed it. Why they choose what they did and if I have their address I will share it with them. I also decided to figure out how much control I had in the situation and how much they had. Maybe apologies if I was wrong, ask for an apology if I was wronged.   It will be an adventure I’m sure.  I am wanting to see who of those I write have integrity, honosty, believe in righteousness.  I am calling it "Fonts” So here is to New Year’s Resolutions!   Cheers!   2013  

OMG! What is under all those wedding dresses???

Weddings, fashion, bridesmaids, mother of the bride (MOB), mother of the groom (MOG) all female attendees.  Okay, women in general, there are things we all love and one of those is to look good.  We love to look and feel beautiful.  From little girls to mature women we all love to feel like we are worth a million dollars.  From our faces to our feet.

This is one of the reasons I love working with brides.  They know that day will be as exciting as a red carpet walk is for a movie star.  All eyes are on her.  Everyone loves and adores her especially the man she is about to marry.  That moment is a moment of perfection and therefore she should feel and look it.  How does this become a reality for any woman?

I always tell my brides it starts with the undergarments.  When her groom takes off the wedding dress on the wedding night she wants to look great.  The lovelier the better.  She can play shy, or sex boom.  Whatever, she wants to be for her man that night is all up to her.  As a wedding planner one of the things I enjoy is gathering the MOB & MOG going up to the room and decorating it for a night of romance.  I will share more on this topic later

The bridesmaids are women who also need to feel imporatant and beautiful. We have all seen the bridesmaid movies out lately describing the horrors of dresses or bridesmaids out there.  In my experience most brides want the best for their bridesmaids and want them to purchase a dress that they will use again.  Very few woman do.  The memories of the night are somehow tied up in the dress.  Bridesmaids need to feel like they are worth a million dollars as well.  Some of them spend a great deal of money just for the honor of becoming a bridesmaid.  It is a way of showing friendship, love and loyalty.  Bethenny Frankel has just launched a like of affordable shapewear for woman.  Here is to the girl who wants it all at affordable prices.

After reading the article by Megan Gustashaw, I thought I would refer it so you too can share with others.  No matter, if you are in a wedding or ever day life the foundation we wear under our garments is what helps us feel like a million dollars.  If we feel like a million dollars we will act like it, if we act like it the possiblities are endless. When everything comes together and you feel, look and act like you are worth it.  Then you are!  So ladies spread the word of what Bethenny Frankel is trying to do.  It is worth sharing. 

Next time you are looking for the perfect item also consider shopping at MK Pure Diamond Events.  Where everything is about you.  www.mkpurediamondevents.com

Thank you to Glamour.com for posting this article. 

Bethenny Frankel Launches Affordable Shapewear Line With Macy's (And Other Shopping News From Across The Web)

by Megan Gustashaw

Bethenny Frankel's affordable shapewear line, called Skinnygirl Solutions, is now available at select Macy's stores across the country and on SkinnygirlShapers.com. Everything is under $50!

Here’s a snap from the ad campaign. Bethenny cast ‘real women’ (i.e. her own friends and employees) as models. The collection has a mix of everyday basics and lacy, racy styles. Chic!

Read More http://www.glamour.com/fashion/blogs/slaves-to-fashion/2012/05/bethenny-frankel-launches-real.html#ixzz1vFb5ueEr

Handbags and Woman

Define as:

hand·bag (h nd b g ) n. 1. A woman's purse. 2. A piece of small hand luggage.

handbag [ˈhændˌbæg]

n

1. (Clothing & Fashion) Also called bag purse (US and Canadian) pocketbook (chiefly US) a woman's small bag carried to contain personal articles

2. (Clothing & Fashion) a small suitcase that can be carried by hand

3. (Music, other) a commercial style of House music

[(for sense 3) C20: humorous allusion to the trend for groups of women to dance round their handbags in discos, nightclubs, etc.]

We woman love handbags and shoes, and you know I love a deal. This is one I have been saving up for.  So, for as long as I can remember I have wanted a certain type of handbag.  It is one of those that woman covet.  Lucky and cherished is the woman whose man buys her one.  It is like the finest diamond.     Berkins Are Like Diamonds

The man, who knows women, knows the importance a good pair of shoes and a handbag of quality mean to her.  The shoes make a statement of who she is and how she feels. But the handbag says the quality of her being.  The fabric she is made of.  What is important to her, to him to them as a couple as individuals.  Can she be bought for a price and if so what is her price?

I believe if you are a woman who likes good things and this doesn’t mean you are materialistic, you treat yourself with the respect you deserve.  You know the difference between a man of quality, moral and standards and a man who just wants a good moment.  It all is about how “He” treats us.  Isn’t it?  They can give us all the greatest things in life but make us pay for it in other ways.  Or they can be true in both.  Treat us good in both areas. For this type of man we are more than a trophy wife.  For this type of man we would be his mate rather than his ride.

 Recently, I discovered that I was important myself, and am important to others.  Self respect when you have been hurt is of the utmost importance.  We can all choose to live in the painful moments in life or we can choose to rise above.  Handbags are just one of those things in life we can use to express ourselves.  Quality, standards, integrity, honesty, morals, beliefs all of these things are expressed in our being and in the manner in which we conduct ourselves.  Some of us are civil, some pray, some gossip, some shop, some choose plastic surgery for their bodies, some of us just internalize things we shouldn’t in the hope we will be blessed, or it is the only cooping skill we have.  All of us women have different coping skills, some learned behaviors and some created by life circumstances.

One of my coping skills is to purchase a new handbag or shoes.  “Walk a mile in my shoes.” I always say before you judge me.   After you walk that mile, if you’re for me stay with me if not get out and return the money and wear and tear of that mile walked, so I can afford a new handbag and a new pair of shoes that were town while you walked that mile with me judging me.  The handbag I purchase will carry you in prayer I hope will be blessed in your life.

What does your handbag and shoes say about you?