Who Has MY Ovaries? (Woman)

Hi there, Damond Glamour Girls;

How funny is it?  I haven't written anything lately because honestly, I haven't had anything to say. Until today.  I have been writing for the other blog, MK Pure Diamond Events and As I was going through the era weddings I realized we all have had friends or family of different wedding eras. 

As I started blogging the different people that I have planned weddings for have come up in my mind.  The brides and grooms and how they talk to their parents about their weddings, their hope for a future and how great their wedding is going to be. The one thing woman have in common is we are all born woman.

We have a Heavenly Father that Galatians 4:4 says " But when the fullness of time was come, God sent forth made  child.

What does it mean "Abba Father!".  I recently went through a divorce and in the midst of it I was crying out!  These very same words.  I couldn't take the pain anymore.  I had done everything possible to stay married.  Not all men want to stay married.  Why? Who knows.  

There are things in life we don't plan for.  We had been through a lot.  He was my only, my one and only!  I thought we had a plan that if I was having difficulties when our second child went through high school we would  go through mediation and stay together.  It is difficult for youth to attend the same school their child  father works at.  Kind like a preachers child who has to have this perfect image of what is like to be a Christian.  That type of perfection is difficult.  It doesn't exist on earth, that is why we are saved by "grace and not by works so that no man should boast".  False works, like when you put your heart and soul into your business and it shows no fruit.  You cry out "Abba Father". Or when you are failing apart and all you can say is "Abba".  Throughout out lives, we were persecuted like any other couples that  stood for Christianity, why because "He" is allowed to test you refine you and perfect your belief.  There are limits on what "He" can do.  When you meet the man of your life in high school and you have been together, everyone  wants what you have.

The one thing I learned not to do planning weddings. I learned to be grateful.  This time even I couldn't stop what happen, nor were my prayers heard.  The only reason I can think of is that I don't know the reason.  No is just not No to some people.  Here is the deal we are all like Mary, if you think about it, we give birth to children, male or female.  The one thing that is important is to know who we have been with, it affects the truth!

Know who is with those ovaries of yours ladies and guard them.  Do not lean them out.  Make sure that place in you is well guarded,  The good thing is ther I life after divorce and you can be friends with past love!  You just have to keep in mind, the reason why.

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"Who Has Control of My Ovaries?" (The Distroyer)

As life would have it that 13 year old would not see that young man for a long time.  Her friend continued to see the other boy even though her mother was not thrilled.  Funny, how life is.  At the time I though my parents were so strict. There friendship ended in a way, even though there was no anger or words ever spoken that it had ended.  I think the 13 year old knew she was not mature enough for boys.  She had had a summer crush but that didn't end well and she was glad she wasn't about to date.  Dating what is that really about, she was forbidden to date until she was 16, it was a rule set by her dad and she accepted it.

She focused on school and the arrival of a new teacher that was all the talk at.  The staff (teachers) at her school were all old. (Okay, maybe another old they were not old enough to retire. This teacher was just out of college his first teaching job.  He had been a substitute teacher at other schools but it was the first time he got a full time work.  His excitement affected a lot of his students with love of learning. He reminded her of what she had been praying for all her life. To become a teacher.  In her early years she use to line up all her dolls and pretend that she had a classroom teaching her children to read And write.  Her love for books lead her to overcome her reading disabilities she had when she was younger.

The disability had to do more with learning to read English while her family spoke another language. The price one pays for having parents who move to the states before all the formative years. You have to remember it was a time before they had dual learning and a stick policy at schools.  English only.  It is a bit of a culture shock.  Not being able to communicate all and teachers yelling at you. I never really understood why they yelled because I didn't know enough English to understand what they were talking about.  It took me getting into a fight in elementary school for the principal to understand I didn't  understand.  After that my teacher took extra time to teach me how to read and write. I went in the classroom at nutrition and stayed after school.

This teacher took the time to explain the difference of teaching in elementary school verses secondary school. He was a new person who believed in my right to be a well educated young person.  There were the girls that had crushes and talked about all the silly boy stuff. My new found focus was education therefore boys became known as destroyers.  I remember praying all the time "The troubles of my heart have enlarge, bring me out of my distresses." Ps 25:17. That really helped knowing that while I could listen to my girlfriends talk about all thief boy problems I was fine trying to focus on my goals.

"Now we have received the Holy Spirit, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit but whom is from God, that we may know the things that have been freely given to us by God" 1 Cor. 2:12   One of the greatest things the United States of America has is the right to education. Freedom!

It is an awesome thing when teacher can excite a child about learning.  Where is he now.  I don't know. What I do know is that we wrote letters until I graduated from high school. Every summer we would write and talk about the school year, the good, the bad, and the hopes and dreams.  I learned that teachers like any other person need encouragement.  They struggle with learning new things. They need to know that what they're doing is worth the price they pay. Even though I learned that teaching can get boring I still became one.