Mary or is it Maria?

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

Have you ever heard of the name "Mary" aka "Maria" who hasn't. Right? There are many things said about this name. Many things good, many things bad. None greater than the "Name of Jesus".  It has been written about since the age of time. Jesus mother, It is gossiped that Mary and Mary were the best of friends. What can make a the mother of Jesus love a woman so much. Did she know her name and reputation?

It is said she was a heroine, (not the drug)  the lover of John. Gossip is gossip, that is what this blog is all about. Was she made to cry? So I wept much, because no one was found worthy to open and read the scroll, or to look at it. Rev 5:4 They wept before they knew what would happen. It's a funny thing to know something is going to happen and not be able to stop it. To know you are being tested, know the result and still not be able to have the person choose a different outcome. This is what these woman experienced. Two woman knowing the truth praying at his feet, crying knowing the results of that day would change their lives forever. Knowing they couldn't stop it, trying their hardest to tell their men they knew, understood and however they didn't want that for them. The pain was greater than they could bare.

Now you as a woman, what would you do if a Mary came to you and said "I was asked to "bitch" for your husband?" Would you answer the woman? Would you ignore the woman? Would you talk to your husband about it? How he felt? If it was true? Is this not the stereotype of what a secretary use to be for her employer? Personally, I question myself?  How many times have I been asked by the mom's of football players if they could do this for their son's for favors. I also as a mom asked my son, if he wanted me to do this when he played football for his coach. He would not allow it. For this I am grateful. My other son, decided the same thing. How much can a mom love her children when they shut down the woman's thoughts from men, they she not become their Mary Magdalene. It is both said and truthful that the songs today speak of this very thing. They address the very topic in modern terms. I don't recommend youth listen to them, however it really gives a world perspective to the bible.

Is that what all the sexual harassment laws are about. It is governments way of stopping and protecting it's people from those that want power and prestige without integrity. It is described that she, She was there at the "beginning of a movement that was going to transform the West". Could this have been the 70's movement and the need to be free for woman?


None the less what the bible says about Mary needs to be held as truth, it is considered a history book. The difference is the bible is the cornerstone for cleanliness, honesty, truth. The goal of Purity:
It should be the goal of every human on earth to want to be saved, and live a "Godly" life. "To much is given much is expected." 
(For they could not endure what was commanded: “And if so much as a beast touches the mountain, it shall be stoned or shot with an arrow.” Heb 12:20

1.He will even deliver one who is not innocent;
Yes, he will be delivered by the purity of your hands.” Job 22:30

2.He who loves purity of heart
And has grace on his lips,
The king will be his friend. Pro 22:11

3. by purity, by knowledge, by longsuffering, by kindness, by the Holy Spirit, by sincere love, 2Cor6:6

4. Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity. 1Tim4:12

5. older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, with all purity.1Tim4:12

Mom, pray for their children and the children of other mom's. Sometimes it is about saying it to the other mom in order that she be held to a standard of purity and not entice the man. Prayer for the mature in spirit is such a beautiful, joyous and honoring way to be. Why not ask the wife?  Asking implies you don't want to have a sexual relationship with the man. You want to pray for him without violating the bonds of marriage. Why not be honest enough to just speak the truth, not for the sake of her men, her son, her child because God can hear those who pray in the name of Jesus anyway. 

A bitch described by Urban Dictionary:

1. Word used to describe the act of whining excessively. 

2. Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seating only car meant for 2 passengers or less. 

3. Modern-day servant; A person who performs tasks for another, usually degrading in status. 

4. Term used to exclaim hardship. 

5. An exceedingly whipped guy who does/wears/thinks/says whatever his girlfriend tells him to.

6. Annoying and whining female.

7. Female Dog

8. A woman that doesn't give a flying f*ck anymore and that can and will be cruel to men.

9. A woman who would say things that if she were a man, she would be confronted or assaulted. (using her position as a woman as a shield)

10.to complain

11. a women with a bad attitude

12. Originally used to describe women; 

now a days literally can be said to any1 ..anytime ..anyplace for any reason

13. The person forced to sit in the middle of the back seat in a car. Often in cases where multiple men and one woman are riding, the woman will automatically be the "bitch" to serve as padding for irrational male homophobia.

A whore is a different being. That too is described in urban dictionary. That is not what I am talking about. Mary Magdalene once she knew Jesus, never whores again. A whore has intentions that may not be at the best interest of your man. 

Either way in the work place it is unacceptable. The laws of the state are involved. 

Now after the Sabbath, as the first day of the week began to dawn, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary came to see the tomb.


Is it possible, somethings are not made for some woman?  Even in the name of Jesus!

"Marry Me!"

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

It is so much fun to read about the latest the greatest in technology. The wedding businesses is blooming with people who want to plan weddings. Then their are the corporations like Wedding Wire, The Knot, and all those magazines brides like looking at. Prop 8 changed the industry forever allowing “gay” marriages. Relationships are and always will be the most difficult thing for humans to do. Like I do, it is difficult to day. We have all these cute sayings for relationships like. “Happy wife, Happy life.”, “Honey, do list.” Or my favorite, ‘Whatever”. The thought of your not even worth the argument, discussion, or thought, take it one step further and your not worth listening to.

Did you think of what the words ‘Marry Me” really mean? Matthew shares with us that in “For in they resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in heaven.” Matt. 22:30. He goes on to explain the generations and memorial for what God wants for his people. Ex. 3:6,15. When you think of it. God has placed allot of Fathers in our path. Could it be that our own Father suffers for us? There are many who become this idea of power and therefore mis-use it in abusing the person they marry.

I don’t believe, that is God’s intended idea of the “Father” or “Power”. “God has spoken once, twice I have heard this: That power belongs to God. Also to you belongs mercy; For You render to each one according to his work.” Ps. 62:11-12 Take a moment and reflect these thoughts to your marriage. Does it have these characters traits in them.

When I plan wedding for clients or the first interview, I tend to ask my clients lots of questions. Some wedding planners ask their clients when they met? How they knew it was love? They get involved in their personal relationship. I tend not to do that. In the first interview. Why? The first interview is to get to know a professional and how professionally they will plan their wedding. The topic of relationships does not happen until later as ‘our’ relationship develops. Why? I honestly feel that as a professionally I am hired to plan their wedding not medal in their relationship.

I am hired to assist, plan, design, decorate, help negotiate, counsel, and do other things event planners consider part of the job description. I try not to get into the relationship part of their marriage. Why? I understand other event planners do. In order that I may provide a good service for them. The relationship between client takes time to develop just like any other relationship. I look at my business as a service business. It is about seeing the couple as the “Father” sees them. to some this may be a narrow minded approach, to others it is the correct approach.

Each person is an individual. Caring for them as individual while planning their wedding is the most important part. Please do not misunderstand. I also have to care for me and my business. Just as important your wedding is to you. So, is my business to me. Therefore, boundaries are established one of mine is to not get in your marriage. It is just starting out. There are more important skills to learn, such as negotiating what you want vs what you can afford.

Anyone, can spend your money. I will be happy to spend your money too. The more you spend the better income I make. However, is it the right or correct thing to do?

“Not from the East, nor from the West, nor from the South, come promotion and lifting up. But God is the Judge! He puts down one and lifts another.”  Ps 75:6-7

“For because of this you also pay taxes, for they are God’s ministers attending continually to this very thing.” Rom.14:6

We both do that right? Therefore, what make you better than I or you better than me?

"Timber" Did you Hear Him Yelling?

Hi there, Glamour Girls;

Gossip here: More juicy talk about the world verses Christian. You know they are not of this world therefore the "church gossip" has to explain it to you. The news could be good or bad depending on the side your on.

I know we woman are charge constantly with gossiping at church is prayer or gossip? Is it helping people stand firm in truth? I love this analogy. 

"Timber"defined: 

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/timber

Full Definition of TIMBER 1 a : growing trees or their wood b —used interjectionally to warn of a falling tree 2 : wood suitable for building or for carpentry 3:material, stuff ; especially : a person or type of person qualified for a particular position or status<managerial timber> 4 a : a large squared or dressed piece of wood ready for use or forming part of a structure b British : lumber 2a c : a curving frame branching outward from the keel of a ship and bending upward in a vertical direction that is usually composed of several pieces united : rib

On the day of Christ crucifixion before the lighting, before the thunder, before the woman started crying and the men talking, because heaven forgive they never gossip. Did the men, at that time yell "Timber!" When they were chopping down the tree that would be carved to become "His" cross!

Did the carpenter that was designing the cross labor and donate the wood? Did the strong man that chopped the wood donate it? Did the person who craved the names donate it? Would this have been casting Lots? Or we're they innocent and  "Nieve" to what the would would be used for and whom it would be used for. Is this part of God's protection in the lives of Adam and Eve? 

The Carpenters of old did lots of different type of work. How many types of employment can you think carpenter do?   

How many of us by our material things from carpenters today?

	Exo 31:5	And in cutting of stones, to set them, and in carving of timber, to work in all manner of workmanship.

Do you think Mary "His" mother had knowledge of what was happening to her son? Was she in pain? Did she listen to gossip? Did she pray? Was she at any time chasten or hurt because her friend Mary was a whore? Would they have called her a bitch?

Could "Pitbull" be talking about this in his song "Timber". Haven't seen the video just thoughts come to me of the truth. Is it possible that a man can hear the timber falling? Is it possible that another man can get him out of the way? If Pitbull intended the song to talk about the "Timber" at the Cross or not is one of the beauty of artistry! One might here what Pitbull intended, some might hear

how it relates to their life, others hear what God want to do for them at the cross! 

I am currently at my moms house, the amazing thing here is the local church "Calvary" blocks away is divided into two churches. One church just blocks from the other. They split into an "Old" as in Old Testament Church is in an old building and "New" Testament Church. Is in a new building that looks looks  like a houseconverted to a church. How sad it is to see this manifestation of God in this area. 

	Act 2:47	Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the churchdaily such as should be saved.
Whatever the song is I Pray you hear Gods truth for your life!

The Word

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls:

How great it is when you can gossip freely without caring of ones results. I laugh as I type this on my cheap computer. My cheap computer that works better than the expensive one I had because it doesn't have anything on it. Gossip is one of those things that can bless or hurt a person.

I love watching women who uphold other woman. Words can bless or hurt an individual just like a picture. I am enjoying for the first time the benefit of talking with woman of Facebook.  You can find me at http;//www.facebook.com/mariakamon. You can like my Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/mk-pure-diamond-events. Up until this point in my life I have been to busy, raising my children to have an account that  with others.

How great it is when you have lived a life, that you know you can advice people on their life, without offending. Without regret, you can just speak the truth to them and they understand. Woman that build woman to be better than they can be if they were not friends. Exciting things. The gossip of the scripture of the word, is that it is black and white? Truth? How true are those to you that are in the truth? That is were the bible meets the reality.

What you wear how you behave is the reality. Gossips are not very liked it churches when you think of it within the biblical concept. However, they may be the best gift a church ever gets. It may just be the spirit of God within the person that gossips about the church. The business of the church is to find out if the church will equip the individual, does the gossip lie about the truth or what is the intent of the word.

How is the word in life affected by the word in person. Is there a collation? The topic of most men's ministry? "Pron" Soft or hard, is it sinful? Does it belong. Let me tell you should a woman persecute a man or her husband if he has confessed he is into porn? How does she help him? How does she up hold him? Either way it is the subject of ages. It is the conversation of woman to know the difference between a godly man, a man be persecuted and man who is just looking for a ride.

The difficulty of life is to know the difference. Ones woman's spirit is not another woman. Daughters are not always made in the image of their mothers, or sisters, Sometimes they are God created with all blessing and power. Therefore, question your maker. Gossip to anyone who will hear if your family is affected, for even a second. God does not separate families. Who does?

The conversations of Facebook. Prove to be good gossip, lets see if it sells blogs and makes income.

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Gossip or Dog?

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls,

I awoke this morning with the usual desire to attend church. Have you ever felt that way? The funny things about attending church is something I loved to do. We all love things we can't have. The book the "Holy" book, the one I based my life on since childhood has finally left me feeling a little over questioned on my integrity level. How many of you Proverbs 31 women have been questioned about the intention in your heart, or asked to make someone else better than you.  As Christian "Saints" we are called. I decided that sainthood was a little to costly for me, therefore I am okay with the choice of sin I have. I gossip. I talk. I tell. I tell you the reader the pain I feel. The abuse I have sustained am substantiating. My failure, my hopes, my dreams, the purposeful intent of one person to take it upon himself to sabotage God's purpose for my life. Therefore, let start by asking you to do what I have been asked to do for others my whole life. Pray for me.

Gossip:  Defined by Urban Dictionary as: Exaggeration or fabrication of a story, regarding somebody other than the tale bearer, in the absence of this person who is being discussed - for the malicious purpose of demeaning, slandering or tarnishing this person's reputation.

"I used to be good friends with this bitch for like 6 years, and when we had a fallout, she went around gossiping all of my personal shit to people behind my back."

Confession: "I use to love attending church and serving until I got pit bull dogged." That's what I was told it was called. 

Discovering the dog of a person as a servant is a little taxing on the spirit, lets not talk about how it affects the family life or, the finances. It is when God opens the years of "His" servant in a way, that even that servant can't speak. The pain is greater than the ability to cope with the desire to fight like a man and dick the dog out! Is something I didn't know how to do. 

The truth is How does a Proverbs 31 woman deal with it. She ask for Grace constantly. For me it was a realization that my servant-hood was official over. Here is the deal, you serve because you are called and then you resign because you are called. You don't tell others how you feel because it will not produce good fruit. Now I am a gossip and not producing good fruit anyway, therefore why not talk about it. Maybe now it will all be prayed over by others and "Grace" will exist once again. 

A women who has been beaten is not exactly going to go out and become the life of the party, therefore I am not sure what God wants for me. Praying for a home, food enough to eat, a place to lay my head that isn't filled with others desires, but God's will for my own life. How does one re-discover this? A business that would support me financially and help my children get out of debt because their mother was having problems with their dad and asked for mediation and returned answer the attorney he wanted a divorce. This was not the answer I expected after 38 years of being together. Not exactly up for serving anyone other than making the "God of Finances" responsible for the new debt she has that she never wanted. Did we talk about what was wrong? Did he ask? NO! Divorce was all he wanted. That should have been all he got. That's what I got. I could be one of those bitter women who whine and complain. That is also who I am Not.

Convict me of the sin, placed on my heart to get out of debt, not be mind controlled by those that love the dog more than the truth. When you saved those that "want" get me the hell out of the place. I am in and help me cope with the new life, I have. The life I didn't choose in the first place, but he wanted for me.  I refuse to believe a God I served can make a Proverbs 31 woman less than a man who choose the divorce in the first place.  I refuse to take responsibilities for the things forced upon me. And the desires of others that are untrue to who I am! Take this as a prayer request if you wish. I was brought up to believe that God would not give you more than you can handle, I say He has. 

I know I didn't abuse my family, and I know I am an outspoken women who believes in Righteousness, Truth and the Freedom this county offer from "Religious Prescription" okay maybe I should say Persecution. "Xanics" so you don't panic,  I think that is what the drug is called is not the solution. Lord take me off the false telephone wire and the operator of abuse and send me the relationships you promised so we can all begin to heal. From the abuse. To tell you the truth, I learned the operator and telephone wire in high school and the perv listening was arrested those years plus four other lost their life. Help! I didn't want that for anyone! Not my children, not "His" children. It should be about peace, love understanding and forgiveness shouldn't it? What about GRACE?

Before you convict me of sin, Convict the "Pitbull" on how abusive he has been in my life. Convict the person who entered who shouldn't have. Convict the person who stood by and watched the isolation that came from it, the financial crises and the emotional sadness. When you find that one then lets talk. When you tell him what he did and created let's talk. Till then, convict him of the sin you have placed in my being. Somewhere, a merciless world is not of a world filled with the "Lord', you told me to trust to pray with out ceasing. To pray for all those who had prayer request. I did, look where I am. Now it is your turn to pray for me. 

I walked away from the abuse, "I leaved and cleaved", help me live a life that is free from mental, physical, and spiritual abuse. Help me, help others. By serving in my business, it is a service based business, it never made the money of millionaires. Not a church planting business, that was what the dog wanted. I am not that type of woman, wasn't in my childhood, wasn't in my youth, wasn't in my teens, wasn't in my adulthood. Therefore, changes are I won't be that in my old age. I do believe there is a place for all things.

What happens to a Proverbs 31 woman after divorce ? Is this really God's best plan for me?  

Boxing is it an Art? (The Bachelor)

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

You know I am not much for TV, however from time to time I do like to watch my favorite programs. I very seldom watch them on the day that they happen, therefore I am a not always paying attention.  I have to say, I wrote a gossip piece about The Bachelor. It apparently is a bigger program than I thought. Yesterday, I watched the final episode.
  

What shock Americans felt at the thought a man would not say, I love you publicly. It makes me wonder about the integrity of a relationship between a man and a women. Is not the intimate details of a relationship suppose to be private? Is romance totally about displaying them publicly and going big. What happens after the big is gone. What new thrill are they going to seek?

Latin men are always, looked at by people as sex appeal? Much like Latin women. What if a man doesn't like or want to be sex for all those he meets. Is he not allowed to be? The though that he wanted to keep somethings just for the two of them makes me think, he thought of more than just himself. The words " I Love You." is more that just words. I have to respect a man that knows the thoughts of privacy and how valuable they are.

I love you, in spirit, is different than saying the words out loud. I love you in spirit is knowing a man is upholding the values of God what he uphold, it is what we are commanded to do.
 "And I have declared unto them thy name, and will declare it: that the love wherewith thou hast loved me may be in them, and I in them." JHN 17:36

When a man has to box...his way to find the one he loves, is that love? The definition of boxing. the art of attack and defense with the fists practiced as a sport.   Since I didn't watch the whole series I can say how much boxing went on what I can say is he wanted to stay. He wanted to find someone not like his first wife, that didn't understand who he was, is , is going to be. He needed time to be with whom he chose without being on television. They finished the program to discover the reality of their life and personality. He was trying his best to have privacy, it is something that was respected in the United States of America, is it no longer? Is the integrity of a man or woman always questioned? Is a marriage no longer a partnership, relationship between two people? If not what happened. This country was started on Christian Values, marriage, relationships was part of that.

For all you complaining about computer people, Juan Pablo, this computer person, says "Right on" your relationship is between you and your girl. We will be watching to see if you do right with our "American" since you are Venezuela. We will keep an eye on your relationship, and prayerful stand for our American. 

I understand, we "computer people" as you call us, have an opinion and we women love respect, therefore I suggest, if you spoke those things to the first, then you must be the last. Therefore, God's peace be with you and marriage is a commitment to be taken seriously. It is also, to be understood a relationship between a man and a women. Freedom of speech is a great thing. Guaranteed by our rights, do not offend by truth. You have a truth, also does each person on The Bachelor, so does each person you speak to. 

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