In a Moment of Panic or is it A Cry for Help?

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

I awoke this morning to different noises. Rooster crowing, dogs barking, birds tweeting and neighbors warming up their cars, trucks for the long morning commute to work. It is country here. I am so not here, yet I am here. Do you understand? I am physically here, however my thought are on the home I lost. My life! My mom can't relate, she has never experienced this type of devastation. Her husband, was an immediate 911 call. To old and frie. What am I doing?

Have you ever felt like a child. Not in the normal way, or adult way, as the child that was hurt and needed you mom? That's a feeling that is indescribable as an adult woman. The pain so intense it would make even the strongest of adults cry for their mom. The pain described best by Job 30:16-23. No, I am not Jesus (I know Him) or Job (I am not Job, I have read about him and I once was a Job's Daughter even became Honored Queen), I am a woman from my birth, however I can relate to this type of pain. A pain so intense You just pick up the belongings you have and run to the what you think is safety. It is safety?

Great lead in for a blog don't you think. Intense! How else can one describe the pain one feels when they have to leave everything behind and move in with a mom that is re-married and has a life with her husband and their own way of being. It is a mom who is no longer the mom of your youth, yet you need the mom of your youth to talk to, to share your life with and what just happen.  It is a time when you both don't understand each other. Communication is no longer there in the same way. She can't relate to your experience and you can't relate to hers. She is now older than what you thought and her husband is even older. Instead of allowing us time, he tries to help (by trying to fix things.) There are some things that can't be fixed.
                                                                                                                                      Broken Marriages
                                                                                                                                Broken Hearts
                                                                                                                        Broken Homes
                                                                                                                 Destroyed Lives
                                                                                                        Employment Lost
                                                                                                 Financial Loss
                                                                                          Hurt Children
                                                                                     Burden Lives
                                                                                 Stolen Lives
 I ask myself...
      Would it have been easier if I would of just asked a neighbor for help?
             Would it have been better if I would have gone to a hotel?
                     Would it have been better if I would have asked my local church if I could sleep in their                                       building, so I could have shelter?
                          Would it have been easier if I would have would it have been better if I would have gone to                                my young man's dorm room and asked if I could sleep there?
                              Would it have been better if I would have gone to my ex-husband's home and humbled                                      myself again and asked to sleep there?
                                 Would it have been better if I would have run to the Doctors and gotten medication for                                     the pain?
                             
What is the right decision when that pain is greater than your ability to cope? That is something that even the bible doesn't talk about. Job lost everything. Job 14:22 "But his flesh will be in pain over it, And his soul will mourn over it." I mourn! I mourn! I SHOUT! Thank You!  

"If he offers it for a thanksgiving, then he shall offer with the sacrifice of thanksgiving,unleavened cakes mixed with oil, unleavened wafers anointed with oil, or cakes of blended flour mixed with oil. " Lev 7:12   Is this communion? Does he take even my right to have communion? Fellowship?What does the Lord want, that he doesn't already have? That he hasn't already done? Taken?

I like you am trying to figure it all out. In the wink of an eye my life changed. "Let them not rejoice over me who are wrongfully my enemies: Nor let them wink with the eye who hate me without a cause." Psalm 35:19

What will I do today that will make a difference? In my life? In the life of another? Did you hear my cry?

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A Way of Escape...Do I need one from the past Fires

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

How many San Diegans are feeling the pressures today of the past. The past that will be in their lives for sometime until they can recover from it. Will the past come back to haunt them in the future? If so, why? Can the past hold you trapped without a future?

I have thought about many things, the thing that I have thought of most is how we get trapped in the past in the first place? Loving water my entire life, I love San Diego. Being able to walk along the coast and give thanks to the God of bigness that lives on the horizon. It doesn't matter where you look there is a horizon and you can't really see the edge of what is about to come your way. Somehow, that has always comfort my soul in knowing that no matter what happens in life, God will remain constant and bigger than my human body allows me to be.  At 5'5" approximately between 120 lbs and 140 lbs. when I look out at the ocean I see what I know to be true. I am so much smaller than the horizon. I enjoy this thought. Why?  It gives me a sense of wonder, excitement and the reality that whatever happens in my life it is small compared to the horizon. No I am not talking about the church. I am talking about perceptive. God's perspective. A clear perspective on my life. What I have to do to be right with my God, Jesus and how I was designed to life my life. Not my mom's life, or my sisters, or her children's or her husband life, or any of my families life.  Not even my ex-husband's life. I am thankful. That my ex-husband and I are friends and we help each other whenever possible, that both our children understand and help us whenever possible. Both of them know the truth and help us stay as a family. They are even looking for my new place to live while I am helping mom. Maybe she's helping me? Last night we had to call 911 her husband fell down and we couldn't pick him up. Shout! Thank you! He is okay. Either way I will eventually have God's perspective eventually again. That's God's perspective. Thats SHOUT! Thank You!

Footprints

It has to do with the life God gave me. How to take care of myself. My dad taught me what was right from wrong for the goals I have have before me. It is a way of escape from the everyday burdens. It is the way I stay! Maybe it is even a form of Judges 3:26. What it is to you is not what it is to me. It is a door, an opening a passage, into self perspective. At a time when I am in Riverside County, while I rebuild my loss of home in Encinitas, while taking care of my aging mom and her husband. It is the one thing I miss the most.

With the hurts from the fires many misplaced from their homes. You might be staying in someones house. You might be feeling uncomfortable. Maybe they won't want you to leave the bedroom after a while of staying there. There annoyed you there, yet you need finances to move and you haven't saved that up.  I know how you feel. I understand how much anger,
                                                    frustration,
                                                                    sadness,
                                                      brokenness,
                                                                     sorrow,                                                                                                                                      bitterness.    

  I thought I would share with you how I let go. All of those things stop the lessons to be learned, the joy to be gain in having perspective and a just measure.  Deut 24:15  I jog and/or walk my 3 miles. It gets all the negative feelings out.

Get this there is no easy fix to the fires and the devastation it left behind, other than to trust yourself and do one thing at a time. For today all I can do is......  One thing at a time.  In sharing this I hope you find peace. Peace to heal from the things that happened
that you had no control over. Love to talk you through it. Prayer to help you believe that God really is a Good God.

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Fire, Water, Salt

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

For most of my life I have been consistent in one thing and one thing only. Praying! I do not take credit for this, I give credit to my earthly dad who taught me the importance of prayer in life! To my heavenly Father who knows that I am only human and lack the ability to fend for myself without Him.

I like you have lost. I have lost my home, had to move in with my mom. Who would have thought at this age I would have such a great loss. No one including my dad. It is times like this I miss talking with him the most. His counsel over my life was always one of wisdom.  Don't misunderstand he had his faults, his sin, he was an alcoholic at times in his life. This made him human not perfect. (Rom 6:19) A sinner saved by grace. Why do I like to think of him this way? Why do I miss him the most at these times, he was the one I shared my life with. He had a family of daughters. The hardest gift given to a man by God. He would listen and not say a word. Get up from his seat, walk to his bedroom pick up the bible that sat on his dresser and find the scripture to give me. I would then go into my room and look up the verses. It was always the best when we would pick up the bible together and minister to one another. We would then discuss what the scripture meant. He loved the Psalms and Proverbs. It was always with him that I solved the biggest of life problems. He would always tell me there is an answer for everything in the bible. A way that is righteous to men. I learn the word man in biblical terms meant men and woman. I didn't have a sexist or raciest father. Although he taught me what they both meant. My youth was in the 60's where we (my family and I got to see a lot of violence). Ps. 11:5

Why did these things happen to me? Too you? We don't always know why. We can ask all the hard questions we want, not always getting an answer. Force can overtake even the most prayerful person. Pro 30:33 If fire force, it is a force that can not be fought by the normal human hands. It takes water! There are many verses that talk about the importance of water. For the body, for the soul, for health, for life.  Water puts out fire. Thank God we have a wonderful fire department that labors for God. He provides many things, including the people that would choose that employment. The news described the fires as a heavenly fire can't. Scripture explains this too.

 Some people look to their preachers for answers. Others to prayerful people. Yet, others think the answer is to find one prayerful person and burden them with the burdens of all His people to teach them what prayerful person should be like. Let me tell you this, there is nothing biblical about this. It is clearly stated that each person should pray for their own life. I ask you to pray, pray for others, however pray for yourself as well. It is with personal prayer that we accomplish the most for your own life. That is what this blog is about. You are the salt of the earth. You are the good that comes and heals those in your life. You are responsible, your are capable, able and you are the one that all this happened to. Pick yourself up, dust off all that is not yours. That you didn't choose, that you didn't create, that you are not responsible for, dig in begin the clean-up process. I to am doing that in my own life. Cleaning up the mess others though was mine.

Prayerfully, together maybe we will succeed in our own lives.

My Prayer list:
1. Health, Home, Friends, Family all safe SHOUT! Thank You!
2. Food, Water, Clothing
3. Employment to pay for the clean up mess and / or Understanding employers who knows I need time to get my life in order.
4. Time to heal all that hurts within. Love that heals, supports and helps.

All that our human body needs. I close with a verse that is important to me, maybe it will speak to your heart. Mark 9:48

God Bless!

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Persian Proverbs

He who knows not, 

and knows not that he knows not, 

is a fool; shun him.

He who knows not, 

and knows that he knows not, 

is a child; teach him.

He who knows, 

and knows not that he knows, 

is asleep; wake him.

He who knows, 

and knows that he knows, 

is wise; follow him.

Thank you to the one who taught me this, thank you to The Lord that gave him this, and thank you to the God who gave him to the mother/ woman, father/husband that taught him to believe! 

Mary or is it Maria?

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

Have you ever heard of the name "Mary" aka "Maria" who hasn't. Right? There are many things said about this name. Many things good, many things bad. None greater than the "Name of Jesus".  It has been written about since the age of time. Jesus mother, It is gossiped that Mary and Mary were the best of friends. What can make a the mother of Jesus love a woman so much. Did she know her name and reputation?

It is said she was a heroine, (not the drug)  the lover of John. Gossip is gossip, that is what this blog is all about. Was she made to cry? So I wept much, because no one was found worthy to open and read the scroll, or to look at it. Rev 5:4 They wept before they knew what would happen. It's a funny thing to know something is going to happen and not be able to stop it. To know you are being tested, know the result and still not be able to have the person choose a different outcome. This is what these woman experienced. Two woman knowing the truth praying at his feet, crying knowing the results of that day would change their lives forever. Knowing they couldn't stop it, trying their hardest to tell their men they knew, understood and however they didn't want that for them. The pain was greater than they could bare.

Now you as a woman, what would you do if a Mary came to you and said "I was asked to "bitch" for your husband?" Would you answer the woman? Would you ignore the woman? Would you talk to your husband about it? How he felt? If it was true? Is this not the stereotype of what a secretary use to be for her employer? Personally, I question myself?  How many times have I been asked by the mom's of football players if they could do this for their son's for favors. I also as a mom asked my son, if he wanted me to do this when he played football for his coach. He would not allow it. For this I am grateful. My other son, decided the same thing. How much can a mom love her children when they shut down the woman's thoughts from men, they she not become their Mary Magdalene. It is both said and truthful that the songs today speak of this very thing. They address the very topic in modern terms. I don't recommend youth listen to them, however it really gives a world perspective to the bible.

Is that what all the sexual harassment laws are about. It is governments way of stopping and protecting it's people from those that want power and prestige without integrity. It is described that she, She was there at the "beginning of a movement that was going to transform the West". Could this have been the 70's movement and the need to be free for woman?


None the less what the bible says about Mary needs to be held as truth, it is considered a history book. The difference is the bible is the cornerstone for cleanliness, honesty, truth. The goal of Purity:
It should be the goal of every human on earth to want to be saved, and live a "Godly" life. "To much is given much is expected." 
(For they could not endure what was commanded: “And if so much as a beast touches the mountain, it shall be stoned or shot with an arrow.” Heb 12:20

1.He will even deliver one who is not innocent;
Yes, he will be delivered by the purity of your hands.” Job 22:30

2.He who loves purity of heart
And has grace on his lips,
The king will be his friend. Pro 22:11

3. by purity, by knowledge, by longsuffering, by kindness, by the Holy Spirit, by sincere love, 2Cor6:6

4. Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity. 1Tim4:12

5. older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, with all purity.1Tim4:12

Mom, pray for their children and the children of other mom's. Sometimes it is about saying it to the other mom in order that she be held to a standard of purity and not entice the man. Prayer for the mature in spirit is such a beautiful, joyous and honoring way to be. Why not ask the wife?  Asking implies you don't want to have a sexual relationship with the man. You want to pray for him without violating the bonds of marriage. Why not be honest enough to just speak the truth, not for the sake of her men, her son, her child because God can hear those who pray in the name of Jesus anyway. 

A bitch described by Urban Dictionary:

1. Word used to describe the act of whining excessively. 

2. Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seating only car meant for 2 passengers or less. 

3. Modern-day servant; A person who performs tasks for another, usually degrading in status. 

4. Term used to exclaim hardship. 

5. An exceedingly whipped guy who does/wears/thinks/says whatever his girlfriend tells him to.

6. Annoying and whining female.

7. Female Dog

8. A woman that doesn't give a flying f*ck anymore and that can and will be cruel to men.

9. A woman who would say things that if she were a man, she would be confronted or assaulted. (using her position as a woman as a shield)

10.to complain

11. a women with a bad attitude

12. Originally used to describe women; 

now a days literally can be said to any1 ..anytime ..anyplace for any reason

13. The person forced to sit in the middle of the back seat in a car. Often in cases where multiple men and one woman are riding, the woman will automatically be the "bitch" to serve as padding for irrational male homophobia.

A whore is a different being. That too is described in urban dictionary. That is not what I am talking about. Mary Magdalene once she knew Jesus, never whores again. A whore has intentions that may not be at the best interest of your man. 

Either way in the work place it is unacceptable. The laws of the state are involved. 

Now after the Sabbath, as the first day of the week began to dawn, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary came to see the tomb.


Is it possible, somethings are not made for some woman?  Even in the name of Jesus!

"Marry Me!"

Hi there, Diamond Glamour Girls;

It is so much fun to read about the latest the greatest in technology. The wedding businesses is blooming with people who want to plan weddings. Then their are the corporations like Wedding Wire, The Knot, and all those magazines brides like looking at. Prop 8 changed the industry forever allowing “gay” marriages. Relationships are and always will be the most difficult thing for humans to do. Like I do, it is difficult to day. We have all these cute sayings for relationships like. “Happy wife, Happy life.”, “Honey, do list.” Or my favorite, ‘Whatever”. The thought of your not even worth the argument, discussion, or thought, take it one step further and your not worth listening to.

Did you think of what the words ‘Marry Me” really mean? Matthew shares with us that in “For in they resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in heaven.” Matt. 22:30. He goes on to explain the generations and memorial for what God wants for his people. Ex. 3:6,15. When you think of it. God has placed allot of Fathers in our path. Could it be that our own Father suffers for us? There are many who become this idea of power and therefore mis-use it in abusing the person they marry.

I don’t believe, that is God’s intended idea of the “Father” or “Power”. “God has spoken once, twice I have heard this: That power belongs to God. Also to you belongs mercy; For You render to each one according to his work.” Ps. 62:11-12 Take a moment and reflect these thoughts to your marriage. Does it have these characters traits in them.

When I plan wedding for clients or the first interview, I tend to ask my clients lots of questions. Some wedding planners ask their clients when they met? How they knew it was love? They get involved in their personal relationship. I tend not to do that. In the first interview. Why? The first interview is to get to know a professional and how professionally they will plan their wedding. The topic of relationships does not happen until later as ‘our’ relationship develops. Why? I honestly feel that as a professionally I am hired to plan their wedding not medal in their relationship.

I am hired to assist, plan, design, decorate, help negotiate, counsel, and do other things event planners consider part of the job description. I try not to get into the relationship part of their marriage. Why? I understand other event planners do. In order that I may provide a good service for them. The relationship between client takes time to develop just like any other relationship. I look at my business as a service business. It is about seeing the couple as the “Father” sees them. to some this may be a narrow minded approach, to others it is the correct approach.

Each person is an individual. Caring for them as individual while planning their wedding is the most important part. Please do not misunderstand. I also have to care for me and my business. Just as important your wedding is to you. So, is my business to me. Therefore, boundaries are established one of mine is to not get in your marriage. It is just starting out. There are more important skills to learn, such as negotiating what you want vs what you can afford.

Anyone, can spend your money. I will be happy to spend your money too. The more you spend the better income I make. However, is it the right or correct thing to do?

“Not from the East, nor from the West, nor from the South, come promotion and lifting up. But God is the Judge! He puts down one and lifts another.”  Ps 75:6-7

“For because of this you also pay taxes, for they are God’s ministers attending continually to this very thing.” Rom.14:6

We both do that right? Therefore, what make you better than I or you better than me?

"Timber" Did you Hear Him Yelling?

Hi there, Glamour Girls;

Gossip here: More juicy talk about the world verses Christian. You know they are not of this world therefore the "church gossip" has to explain it to you. The news could be good or bad depending on the side your on.

I know we woman are charge constantly with gossiping at church is prayer or gossip? Is it helping people stand firm in truth? I love this analogy. 

"Timber"defined: 

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/timber

Full Definition of TIMBER 1 a : growing trees or their wood b —used interjectionally to warn of a falling tree 2 : wood suitable for building or for carpentry 3:material, stuff ; especially : a person or type of person qualified for a particular position or status<managerial timber> 4 a : a large squared or dressed piece of wood ready for use or forming part of a structure b British : lumber 2a c : a curving frame branching outward from the keel of a ship and bending upward in a vertical direction that is usually composed of several pieces united : rib

On the day of Christ crucifixion before the lighting, before the thunder, before the woman started crying and the men talking, because heaven forgive they never gossip. Did the men, at that time yell "Timber!" When they were chopping down the tree that would be carved to become "His" cross!

Did the carpenter that was designing the cross labor and donate the wood? Did the strong man that chopped the wood donate it? Did the person who craved the names donate it? Would this have been casting Lots? Or we're they innocent and  "Nieve" to what the would would be used for and whom it would be used for. Is this part of God's protection in the lives of Adam and Eve? 

The Carpenters of old did lots of different type of work. How many types of employment can you think carpenter do?   

How many of us by our material things from carpenters today?

	Exo 31:5	And in cutting of stones, to set them, and in carving of timber, to work in all manner of workmanship.

Do you think Mary "His" mother had knowledge of what was happening to her son? Was she in pain? Did she listen to gossip? Did she pray? Was she at any time chasten or hurt because her friend Mary was a whore? Would they have called her a bitch?

Could "Pitbull" be talking about this in his song "Timber". Haven't seen the video just thoughts come to me of the truth. Is it possible that a man can hear the timber falling? Is it possible that another man can get him out of the way? If Pitbull intended the song to talk about the "Timber" at the Cross or not is one of the beauty of artistry! One might here what Pitbull intended, some might hear

how it relates to their life, others hear what God want to do for them at the cross! 

I am currently at my moms house, the amazing thing here is the local church "Calvary" blocks away is divided into two churches. One church just blocks from the other. They split into an "Old" as in Old Testament Church is in an old building and "New" Testament Church. Is in a new building that looks looks  like a houseconverted to a church. How sad it is to see this manifestation of God in this area. 

	Act 2:47	Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the churchdaily such as should be saved.
Whatever the song is I Pray you hear Gods truth for your life!