You know I love talking...talk talk talk. Lets get to the reality of the matter. The reality is that as a woman not all of us marry perfect men. We are called to carry one another barrens. The imperfect life of a child, the husband who in his youth was not perfect and didn't know how to uphold his children, the man at work that insist in his way, the friend from the past who needs his fantasy to keep himself "feeling good". It didn't matter how many lives he took along the way or how many he hurt young or old.
Psalm 55:22 "Cast your burden on the Lord, And He shall sustain you: He shall never permit the righteous to be moved."
Have you ever thought about what you share with your friends. The sins of woman are much different then the sins of men. We are both human, however in my experience we confess out need to be loved. On our wedding day we just want to be the girl that is perfect for our guy. We want to have everyone of their attentions including the lust for the honeymoon. We hope they will lust after us as they did for the girl of their youth.
Men confess their need for lust.
When your a mom the lines get blurry or do they? We are mean if we tell our sons don't date a girl, lead her on, until you know you like them. Don't go out unless you group date for protection from the one sin that pledges men the most. Be careful, don't stay out too late. "Kiss me at midnight when you get home." I am employed by two people working for two different companies and I am tired by the time Friday Night comes along, so I need to trust you."
The trust in knowing you taught your child the biblical truth, the best way possible. There are points in my life where I have been so burrens by my men that I didn't know how to listen anymore. Especially when you have an aging mom complaining, a sister who wants, young men your trying to raise to be healthy productive, a divorce, a loss of job or employment, not enough money to feed yourself let alone pay rent, phone bill and basic nessecities of life.
You can love "The Lord" with all your heart and still experience devestations?
You can life a life knowing that you can do everything you can possible do to survive and life still happens. The lust in the heart of others is a lust we don't always know, we are not suppose to know but as humans we are to stop when someone ask us to stop, we are to forgive when we are asked, we are to understand No means NO and Yes means Yes. We are suppose to know the difference between bulling someone and survival.
Do you want the same thing I do? This is the first thing you should ask your fiance. If not walk away. We are also suppose to trust when we are told we will be taken care of and helped. What is your lust issue?
Grace...should be without a price, however life on earth may just be another story? Still questioning where is "David in Psalms when you need someone praying over your life?" Will you be the one that prays for me today?
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